When I look back at all the mistakes (Which I realize now) I have done in my life , May be it was the best thing I could do at that time as per my understanding of the world. And No regrets Or self loathing can change that.
The important thing is to learn , Learn from all the experiences and not repeating the mistakes. There is a saying “lessons in life will be repeated until they are learnt”
We often say
“Dear God , Why me Again and Again??” Or
“Why my relationships are failing every time?”
“Why do I have to face these financial issues all the time ?”
“Why the situation is not improving and I am standing at the same point in life again.”
The answer to all these questions is “Because we dint learn our lesson , we are repeating the same mistakes and expecting a different outcome.”
We need to change our perspective to look at the experience of failure because Universe wants us to learn. Universe wants us to be a better version of ourselves.
So now rather that feeling like a victim every time after a heart break or after a rejection or anything that bring you down , think about the learning ! What did you learn , what is it that you need to stop doing ! What is it you got to know about yourself and embrace it and be the best version of yourself.
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